Start with the rim of the butthole before going all the way in with a penis, strap-on, or dildo.
Play around with fingers first working your way up from small to big. “Go slow and go small,” says Joanna Encarnacion, a sex and relationship coach. With the right positions and a few helpful pointers, you could be one of them.īut if it's your first time, there’s a few things you want to keep in mind.
Another major perk? Some women even experience full-on anal orgasms. Anal sex provides a different kind of fullness and can be really, truly intimate (especially if it's a first for both of you). 'I've come across plenty of women who love anal play,' says Gigi Engle, sex coach and sexologist (she's legit a sexpert for the Womanizer sex toy brand). And by that, I mean GREAT news, because women can actually enjoy butt play just as much as men do. Good news: Anal sex is becoming less and less taboo.
